<div dir="auto" style="border:0px; margin:0px; padding:0px; text-align:start; -webkit-text-stroke-width:0px"><span style="font-family:Georgia,serif;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:normal"><span style="font-variant-ligatures:normal"><span style="font-variant-caps:normal"><span style="font-variant-numeric:inherit"><span style="font-variant-east-asian:inherit"><span style="font-weight:400"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:#201f1e"><span style="letter-spacing:normal"><span style="orphans:2"><span style="text-transform:none"><span style="white-space:normal"><span style="widows:2"><span style="word-spacing:0px"><span style="background-color:#ffffff"><span style="text-decoration-thickness:initial"><span style="text-decoration-style:initial"><span style="text-decoration-color:initial"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="box-sizing:border-box"><font color="#000000"><font style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;"><font style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;">Öfke, herhangi bir şeyin engel olunması ile ortaya çıkan istenmeyen bir duygudur. Çocuklarda öfke nöbetleri çoğunlukla 1 ve 2 yaş aralığında sıklıkla kendini gösterir.Öfke nöbetinde sırasında çocuk; çığlık atma, bağırma, tekme atma,inatlaşma, vurma, kafasını vurma, kendini yere atma gibi davranışlar gösterir.</font><span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:inherit">Çocuk her ne kadar </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>bağımsızlaşmayı<span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:inherit"> arzu etsede anne ve babasına bağlıdır ve bu durumdayken fark etmesi öfke nöbeti yaşamasına sebep olur.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></font></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div> <div dir="auto" style="border:0px; margin:0px; padding:0px; text-align:start; -webkit-text-stroke-width:0px"> <p style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased; box-sizing:border-box; list-style:none; margin:0px; padding:0px"></p> <p style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased; box-sizing:border-box; list-style:none; margin:0px; padding:0px"><span style="font-family:Georgia,serif;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:normal"><span style="font-variant-ligatures:normal"><span style="font-variant-caps:normal"><span style="font-variant-numeric:inherit"><span style="font-variant-east-asian:inherit"><span style="font-weight:400"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:#201f1e"><span style="letter-spacing:normal"><span style="orphans:2"><span style="text-transform:none"><span style="white-space:normal"><span style="widows:2"><span style="word-spacing:0px"><span style="background-color:#ffffff"><span style="text-decoration-thickness:initial"><span style="text-decoration-style:initial"><span style="text-decoration-color:initial"><font color="#000000"><font style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;"><span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:inherit">Öfkelenen bir çocuğa en doğru yaklaşım, çocukla birlikte öfkelenmemek yani sakinliğimizi koruyabilmektir. Şöyle düşünün karşınızda avazı çıktığı kadar bağırarak ağlayan bir çocuğunuz var ve siz de onunla birlikte öfkeleniyor ve ona bağırmaya başlıyorsunuz.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></font></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased; box-sizing:border-box; list-style:none; margin:0px; padding:0px"></p> <p style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased; box-sizing:border-box; list-style:none; margin:0px; padding:0px"><span style="font-family:Georgia,serif;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:normal"><span style="font-variant-ligatures:normal"><span style="font-variant-caps:normal"><span style="font-variant-numeric:inherit"><span style="font-variant-east-asian:inherit"><span style="font-weight:400"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:#201f1e"><span style="letter-spacing:normal"><span style="orphans:2"><span style="text-transform:none"><span style="white-space:normal"><span style="widows:2"><span style="word-spacing:0px"><span style="background-color:#ffffff"><span style="text-decoration-thickness:initial"><span style="text-decoration-style:initial"><span style="text-decoration-color:initial"><font color="#000000"><font style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;"><span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:inherit">Peki bu işe yarıyor mu? Hayır aksine çocuk kendisi anlamayan ve kendisine öfke ile karşılık veren kişiye karşı öfke biriktirmeye başlar ve bu biriken öfke zamanla öfke patlamalarına döner. </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></font></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased; box-sizing:border-box; list-style:none; margin:0px; padding:0px"></p> <p style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased; box-sizing:border-box; list-style:none; margin:0px; padding:0px"><span style="font-family:Georgia,serif;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:normal"><span style="font-variant-ligatures:normal"><span style="font-variant-caps:normal"><span style="font-variant-numeric:inherit"><span style="font-variant-east-asian:inherit"><span style="font-weight:400"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:#201f1e"><span style="letter-spacing:normal"><span style="orphans:2"><span style="text-transform:none"><span style="white-space:normal"><span style="widows:2"><span style="word-spacing:0px"><span style="background-color:#ffffff"><span style="text-decoration-thickness:initial"><span style="text-decoration-style:initial"><span style="text-decoration-color:initial"><font color="#000000"><font style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;"><span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:inherit">Yapacağınız</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:inherit"> şey öfkesini yaşamasına izin </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>vermenizdir<span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:inherit">, duygusuna değil davranışına sınır koymanızdır, peki nasıl? </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></font></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased; box-sizing:border-box; list-style:none; margin:0px; padding:0px"><span style="font-family:Georgia,serif;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:normal"><span style="font-variant-ligatures:normal"><span style="font-variant-caps:normal"><span style="font-variant-numeric:inherit"><span style="font-variant-east-asian:inherit"><span style="font-weight:400"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:#201f1e"><span style="letter-spacing:normal"><span style="orphans:2"><span style="text-transform:none"><span style="white-space:normal"><span style="widows:2"><span style="word-spacing:0px"><span style="background-color:#ffffff"><span style="text-decoration-thickness:initial"><span style="text-decoration-style:initial"><span style="text-decoration-color:initial"><font color="#000000"><font style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;"><span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:inherit"><img alt="" src="https://balikesirimnet.teimg.com/balikesirim-net/images/upload/muge_yahsi.jpg" style="width: 241px; height: 276px;" /></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></font></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br /> <span style="color:#008000;"><strong><span style="font-family:Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size:12px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:normal"><span style="font-variant-ligatures:normal"><span style="font-variant-caps:normal"><span style="font-variant-numeric:inherit"><span style="font-variant-east-asian:inherit"><span style="font-weight:400"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="letter-spacing:normal"><span style="orphans:2"><span style="text-transform:none"><span style="white-space:normal"><span style="widows:2"><span style="word-spacing:0px"><span style="background-color:#ffffff"><span style="text-decoration-thickness:initial"><span style="text-decoration-style:initial"><span style="text-decoration-color:initial"><font style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;"><span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline">Müjde Yahşi</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></strong></span></p> <p style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased; box-sizing:border-box; list-style:none; margin:0px; padding:0px"></p> <p style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased; box-sizing:border-box; list-style:none; margin:0px; padding:0px"><span style="font-family:Georgia,serif;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:normal"><span style="font-variant-ligatures:normal"><span style="font-variant-caps:normal"><span style="font-variant-numeric:inherit"><span style="font-variant-east-asian:inherit"><span style="font-weight:400"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:#201f1e"><span style="letter-spacing:normal"><span style="orphans:2"><span style="text-transform:none"><span style="white-space:normal"><span style="widows:2"><span style="word-spacing:0px"><span style="background-color:#ffffff"><span style="text-decoration-thickness:initial"><span style="text-decoration-style:initial"><span style="text-decoration-color:initial"><font color="#000000"><font style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;"><span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:inherit">Mesela; "Oyuncaklarını toplamak istemiyorsun dimi ve bundan dolayı da öfkeleniyorsun hı hı ama dağıttın oyuncakları toplaman gerekiyor çünkü oyuncaklarını toplamadığında yeni bir oyuncak </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>oynamamayı<span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:inherit"> da seçmiş olursun” şeklinde hem duygu ve düşüncesini anlamış hem de seçimi ona bırakmış oluruz. </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></font></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased; box-sizing:border-box; list-style:none; margin:0px; padding:0px"></p> <p style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased; box-sizing:border-box; list-style:none; margin:0px; padding:0px"><span style="font-family:Georgia,serif;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:normal"><span style="font-variant-ligatures:normal"><span style="font-variant-caps:normal"><span style="font-variant-numeric:inherit"><span style="font-variant-east-asian:inherit"><span style="font-weight:400"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:#201f1e"><span style="letter-spacing:normal"><span style="orphans:2"><span style="text-transform:none"><span style="white-space:normal"><span style="widows:2"><span style="word-spacing:0px"><span style="background-color:#ffffff"><span style="text-decoration-thickness:initial"><span style="text-decoration-style:initial"><span style="text-decoration-color:initial"><font color="#000000"><font style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;"><span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:inherit">Çocuğun yaşına ve gelişimine bakarak; pekiştireçler kullanabilir, </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>alternatiflerler<span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:inherit"><span style="font-variant:inherit"><span style="font-weight:inherit"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:inherit"> sunabilir ya da dikkatini farklı bir alana da çekerek duygularını regüle etmesinde çocuğa yardımcı olabiliriz. Bu yöntemlerle çocuğun anlaşılmamış, engellenmiş ya da reddedilmiş gibi olumsuz hislerin önüne geçerek öfke krizlerinin önüne geçebiliriz.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></font></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p> </div> <div dir="auto" style="border:0px; margin:0px; padding:0px; text-align:start; -webkit-text-stroke-width:0px"></div> <div dir="auto" style="border:0px; margin:0px; padding:0px; text-align:start; -webkit-text-stroke-width:0px"><span style="font-family:Georgia,serif;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:normal"><span style="font-variant-ligatures:normal"><span style="font-variant-caps:normal"><span style="font-variant-numeric:inherit"><span style="font-variant-east-asian:inherit"><span style="font-weight:400"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:#201f1e"><span style="letter-spacing:normal"><span style="orphans:2"><span style="text-transform:none"><span style="white-space:normal"><span style="widows:2"><span style="word-spacing:0px"><span style="background-color:#ffffff"><span style="text-decoration-thickness:initial"><span style="text-decoration-style:initial"><span style="text-decoration-color:initial"><font color="#000000"><font style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;"><b style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased">Bazı çocuklar daha sinirli,<br /> bu daha çok ne ile ilgili olabilir ?</b></font></font></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div> <div dir="auto" style="border:0px; margin:0px; padding:0px; text-align:start; -webkit-text-stroke-width:0px"></div> <div dir="auto" style="border:0px; margin:0px; padding:0px; text-align:start; -webkit-text-stroke-width:0px"><span style="font-family:Georgia,serif;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased"><span style="font-style:normal"><span style="font-variant-ligatures:normal"><span style="font-variant-caps:normal"><span style="font-variant-numeric:inherit"><span style="font-variant-east-asian:inherit"><span style="font-weight:400"><span style="font-stretch:inherit"><span style="line-height:inherit"><span style="vertical-align:baseline"><span style="color:#201f1e"><span style="letter-spacing:normal"><span style="orphans:2"><span style="text-transform:none"><span style="white-space:normal"><span style="widows:2"><span style="word-spacing:0px"><span style="background-color:#ffffff"><span style="text-decoration-thickness:initial"><span style="text-decoration-style:initial"><span style="text-decoration-color:initial"><font color="#000000"><font style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;">Bazı çocukların daha fazla sinirli olması, anne ya da babasının da sinirli olması ile ilgilidir. Ya da çocuk geniş bir ailede yaşıyorsa o evin diğer üyelerinden birileri sinirli ise çocuk da sinirli yapı geliştirir. Mesela öfke anında öfkesini kontrol edemeyip kapı çarpan ya da yere kumanda fırlatan birini gören çocuk, kendi de öfkelendiğinde benzer tepkileri gösterir ve şöyle bir düşünce geliştirir: “Demek ki öfkelendiğimizde kapıları çarpmalıyız ve elimizde ne varsa sağa sola fırlatmalıyız.” Bu çıkarım ile çocuk yetişkini rol model alır.</font></font></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div>